master magnetic attraction

THE POLAR TRUTH METHOD

Volume I: The Foundation of Polar Truth

If you want your woman to respect you, then you need to understand these principles.

Polar Truth

(noun / English)

Polar(ity): The underlying principle of attraction between the masculine and the feminine.

Truth: The state in which your thoughts and actions are in complete alignment.

As a leader of men and a lover of women with a select clientele, I don't need to teach this, I choose to.Men keep asking me how I do it.
Women keep saying they want real men back.When I discovered that my style of communicating with women was radically different than every other man, I analysed and dissected the most significant differences and the results that came because of them.From this, I established the Polar Truth method.I didn’t create this because I needed to.
I created it because the world needs it.This is my way of giving back... Teaching men how to communicate in a way that's never been taught before.Five years ago, women didn’t notice me...
Since then, I've studied human nature, polarity, and psychology... and I now live on the other side of that spectrum.Polar Truth Method will redefine how you communicate with women.

private mentorship

remove the mask. earn her respect.

I know you don’t have the respect you want from your woman.I’ve been there... and I built the tools to fix it.This mentorship isn’t for everyone.
Entry is by application only.It’s for men who want real results... men ready to take action, face truth, and lead again.
If that’s not you, don’t waste my time.

insights for women

Vol I: 10 Red Flags in men that women think are normal

The following red flags might look normal (even ideal) in a culture that’s confused about masculinity. You might have been told they’re signs of a good man. They’re not.Each one reveals the same core problem: a man who’s disconnected from his masculine centre.These aren’t the obvious red flags. They’re the ones that slip under the radar because society has disguised them as virtue.Once you see them for what they are, you can’t unsee them.

€12

16 page PDF

insights for women

Vol I: 10 Red Flags in men that women think are normal

The following red flags might look normal (even ideal) in a culture that’s confused about masculinity. You might have been told they’re signs of a good man. They’re not.Each one reveals the same core problem: a man who’s disconnected from his masculine centre.These aren’t the obvious red flags. They’re the ones that slip under the radar because society has disguised them as virtue.Once you see them for what they are, you can’t unsee them.

€12

16 page PDF

This is not therapy, coaching, or motivation.It’s direct, uncompromising mentorship for men ready to remove the mask they are hiding behind, and move from a place of strength and truth.

SUCCESS

You’ve just taken the first step.Your download link is on its way to your inbox... check your email now for The Polar Truth Method: Foundation.Read it slowly. Reflect deeply. Apply what you learn.This is where it begins...Welcome to The Polar Truth Method.

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MITCH MENTOR

polar truth method

volume i out now

I guarantee these are things you have not heard before & will completely change your approach to relationships..

literature for women

new mini ebook series

A curated body of written work revealing what most people avoid... the truths about men, women, polarity, and personal power.Each title is concise, direct, and built for practical insight... not theory.These are manuals for women who want to understand male nature at its core and apply the lessons in their relationships.From the "Inside the Masculine" series to future written works, this is where all of my understanding is documented in full.

A collection of my most trusted works, dedicated to redefining how men and women show up in the world.From private mentorship and thought-provoking digital literature to real-world immersion and experiences, the Collective exists to raise standards across every dimension of life.This is not self-improvement.This is intentional, integrated, alignment... guided by divine truth, natural law, and embodied experience.

Volume i

The following red flags might look normal (even ideal) in a culture that’s confused about masculinity. You might have been told they’re signs of a good man. They’re not.Each one reveals the same core problem: a man who’s disconnected from his masculine centre.These aren’t the obvious red flags. They’re the ones that slip under the radar because society has disguised them as virtue.Once you see them for what they are, you can’t unsee them.

€12

16 page PDF document

Reclaim your Confidence, Presence, and Power with Women...

Reclaim your Confidence, Presence, and Power with Women...

the biggest challenge I see in Men today...

is that they are either invisible to women when single,
or enslaved by them when in a relationship.Not because they’re weak.
Not because they lack looks or intelligence.But because most men today have NO IDEA how to interact with feminine energy.They don’t understand it, they fear it, or they try to control it...

When single, men seek approval...

They talk fast. They fidget.
They apologise for existing.
Their bodies leak uncertainty they’re trying to hide behind clever lines or hollow “red-pill” theory.

When in relationships, men hand over their power...

They stop leading.
They avoid responsibility.
They expect devotion without earning respect.And then they wonder why she’s cold, distant, or disrespectful.

Women can sense your strength before you speak...

They don’t respond to what you say... they respond to what they feel.If your energy isn’t grounded and authentic, she will drift away.It’s not personal... it’s biological.Every rejection chips away at your confidence.Every time your woman stops trusting you, your masculine authority dies a little more.And with it, your ability to build the relationship or life you actually want.It doesn’t have to stay this way.You can rebuild the strength that draws her in,
and the continuous presence that keeps her there.

Meet

MITCH MENTOR

Masculine Integration Mentor

I was once where you are now... chasing connection in all the wrong places.Swiping, drinking, searching, yet always ending up lost and frustrated.Even in relationships, I avoided full responsibility.
I blamed. I compromised. I let women lead because I was afraid to lose them.I thought attraction was about charm and success... until I learned it’s really about strength, energy, direction, and truth.When I stopped seeking approval and started living from a place of strength, everything changed.Now I live in Montenegro, surrounded by radiant feminine women, strong brothers, and the peace that comes from knowing who I am.It’s become my life’s work to integrate the masculine and feminine... within myself and in the men I guide.But understand this: my method is raw and unconventional.
It demands brutal honesty, discipline, and extreme action.I don’t teach theory.I teach what I’ve lived... how to build a presence women fare naturally drawn to, and how to maintain lasting successful relationships.

The Reality is...

you don’t need to chase women.
You need to become a man worth chasing.When your breath slows, your posture opens, your eyes stop darting...
everything changes.She feels you.
Not because you’re performing, but because you’ve finally stopped hiding.This mentorship is where that happens.
Not through pickup lines or empty words.
Through embodiment... through reclaiming control of your body, your mind, and your energy.

what you will rebuild...

Presence: speak less, command more. Stillness that draws attention without trying.Polarity: how to hold tension with women... eye contact, silence, leadership.Strength: the daily rituals that build a body and mind women trust.Conviction: say what you mean, mean what you say, and stand by it.Every piece of this mentorship is built to rewire your nervous system...
from anxious, overthinking, and compromising... to calm, assertive, and deeply attractive.

my method...

  • Private 1:1 guidance

  • 60–90 minute live calls

  • Custom daily embodiment & confidence training

  • Direct message support between sessions

Engagements can range from 1 hour intensives, to intimate agreements that last several months.Alternatively, some Men work with me exclusively online, or through text.No matter what challenge you’re facing, I have a solution to it.

Limited places. I only work with men who are prepared to take action.

what changes?

You stop explaining yourself.
Your words slow down.
Your body moves differently... less noise, more intent.
Women look longer.
Men listen when you speak.
You walk into a room and there’s gravitas again.That’s not charisma.
That’s deep masculine strength.

who this is for

  • You can attract women but don't know how to maintain a strong frame long-term.

  • You want to attract a feminine women into your life but you don't align with modern dating methods.

  • Your woman does not respect you the way you want her to

  • You don't know how to attract the women that you want

If any of these resonate with you, this is your call.

your invitation

If you’re done analysing.
If you’re done performing.
If you’re done living as a man who almost gets what he wants...Then stop waiting and start leading.Apply below.We’ll have a short conversation to see if you’re ready for this level of work.

The man you want to be is already there.
He’s just buried under distraction, fear, and habits that make you weak.Together, we will strip these things away and rebuild you into a man of strength, presence, and respect.

the spalding brothers

As Brothers, we travel the world in search of adventure... competing in combat sports, dancing with beautiful women, uncovering the secrets of our universe, and much more... all under the banner of FINAL FORM.You will find us at our Compound deep in the mountains of Montenegro, honing our skills, deepening our spiritual connection, and living by the Way of Final Form.If you're ready to embrace a life of Growth, Belonging, and Respect, then we openly extend our philosophy, and welcome you to join us on the pursuit of FINAL FORM...

Meet

MITCH MENTOR

Masculine Integration Mentor

Most Men today are disconnected from their bodies and unsure of their direction.They overthink, seek approval, and try to impress... but Women don't respond to words; they respond to Presence.Without grounded masculine energy, success with Women turns into performance, not connection.

literature for women

new mini ebook series

A curated body of written work revealing what most people avoid... the truths about men, women, polarity, and personal power.Each title is concise, direct, and built for practical insight... not theory.These are manuals for those who want to understand male nature at its core and apply the lessons in the real world.From The "Inside the Masculine" series to future written works, this is where all of my life knowledge is documented in full.

Meet

MITCH MENTOR

Masculine Integration Mentor

The BIGGEST challenge I see with most of the Men I work with is they have resigned themselves to a life of mediocrity and have accepted their place in life...I will first help you see the man you could become, and then I will help you to achieve it.It's not about bodybuilding, podcasts, gym memberships, cold approach, and dating apps.Its about a lifelong commitment to becoming the version of yourself that is worthy of the result these things can give you.I believe that your body, lifestyle, and relationships, are all physical reflections of your beliefs...Therefore, when you are looking for mentors and authority figures to help guide you, I believe that you should only give authority to the people who are the physical embodiment of the ideas they are preaching.Myself, and the Men I mentor are living examples of what it means to integrate masculinity to reclaim confidence, presence, and power with women.So let me ask you, how would it feel if you could see clearly the man you could become, and knew exactly how to achieve it?

WHO I SERVE

I serve all of those who are prepared to listen.Every part of me is available. Nothing is off limits.Whatever aspect of my life has sparked your curiosity... whether it's my success with women, strong family unit, physique, dancing, body language, martial arts, fashion, or something else entirely... it's on the table.If it holds value for you, I'm prepared to share it.I have designed every detail of my life with 100% intention, and I understand that many parts of my life resonate with different people for different reasons...I offer everything I've built and everything I know to those bold enough to ask.

the location

Depending on what you have in mind, I am available locally around Tivat, Montenegro, or worldwide via Zoom.Due to the nature and intensity of my work, I will always suggest a more remote and secluded location to minimise external distractions and maximise our time together.Should you require me to meet you in person at another location, global travel can be arranged.

my fees

Every Man and Woman I work with is unique, each asking something different from me. That’s why I don’t offer standard, one-size-fits-all pricing. Instead, I tailor my solutions to your specific needs.Engagements can range from 1 hour intensives, to intimate agreements that last several months.Alternatively, some Men and Women work with me exclusively online, or through text.No matter what challenge you’re facing, I already have a solution to it.

get in touch

If you're interested in working with me, I encourage you to message me with your enquiry directly via any of the following methods:

A curated collection of literature, created by the Spalding Brothers, designed to elevate your growth...

the war on health

Learn how to win the war on your health and reclaim your strength, beauty, and divinity in the modern toxic world.

alpha aesthetic

Alpha Aesthetic: Discover the timeless principles to curate an undeniable physical presence...

sovereign strategy

The culmination of ALL of the questions and exercises we went through, that allowed us to achieve a remarkable level of freedom in our lives...

the way

A simple, yet extensive pathway for young Men to follow that will build a strong foundation as they enter into Manhood.The Way outlines 40 intentional practices that will forge you into a Man worthy of respect.Walk the Way.Achieve Your FINAL FORM.

digital ghost

Digital Ghost is the ultimate solution for those seeking privacy, security, and anonymity online.Catering to beginners and experts alike, it offers three distinct levels, ensuring ease of use and the ability to implement its teachings at your own pace.With clear, step-by-step instructions, Digital Ghost equips you with everything necessary to reclaim your digital freedom in today's dystopian world.

Most successful people attribute their success to overcoming some kind of hardship in their youth. Either they were extremely poor, came from a broken home, or something traumatic happened to them. And consequently they were driven to overcome this adversity and make it out.My story, however, is the complete opposite...

I grew up surrounded by love and support. My father provided for us, my Mother nurtured us, and my brother and I shared a room for most of our childhood. Together, we were as close as a family could be.I never faced extreme hardship that pushed me to escape my situation, but my family also wasn’t wealthy enough for me to be carefree about my future. We were just existing in the middle class, keeping up with the joneses like everyone else.The main danger here was the complacency that resulted from just the right amount of comfort. This gave our family no reason to strive for anything more, which eventually led to poor health and a mediocre lifestyle, causing us to abandon our dreams.

2019

the catalyst

When I was 20 years old I found myself on a train to Exeter, leaving home to become a Royal Marine. I was now looking out for myself and my own future…A couple of months into training, I found myself watching the sunset over the assault course, reflecting on what my family had become.My Mother was overweight, my Father was trapped in the corporate 9-5, and my brother was on the other side of the country studying sports journalism at university.In that moment I saw my families future… My parents were going to struggle for the rest of their lives for no good reason, my brother and I would drift apart and forget about each other, and I was going to lose everything that I had held dear to me my whole life. My family.

I realised that after all the love and support I had from my parents growing up, I had just left them to suffer back home while I went gallivanting in the marines.I could see clearly that as things were, none of them had a bright future ahead of them and no one was coming to save them.I decided right there that enough was enough. I would not abandon my family.I knew I was resourceful enough to figure out a way to turn everyone’s lives around, even if they didn’t know it yet. So I left the marines, moved back home and got to work.In the months that followed, I had strategically broken down every aspect of our lives and devised a plan that would take us out of the middle class bubble and allow us all to thrive.

2020 - present

thriving & giving back

That time together was a catalyst. I convinced our family to commit to a shared vision for our future.By the end of 2020 we sold everything—our cars, house, possessions—and made the bold decision to move to a new country, ready to start fresh.It wasn't all plain sailing to say the least, but four years later and I am proud to say that my family is now thriving in Montenegro.My Brother and I have an unbreakable bond, my Father works from his laptop, with one of the most beautiful views in the world as his backdrop, and my beautiful Mother is her healthiest, most highest vibrational self.Our story is far from over, but now that I’ve set things in motion for my family, I have the opportunity to share my strategic insight with the rest of the world…

More things about me:

  • I sleep on the floor

  • I've taken cold showers everyday for 3 years straight

  • I have a passion for beauty

  • I've competed in MMA internationally

  • I live an all-natural lifestyle

  • I found how to connect with my soul when I learned salsa dancing

  • Simplifying and seeing the big picture are two of my biggest strengths

  • I get called "intense" a lot

Together, we will identify the key areas in your life that are holding you back. By uncovering the root causes of these challenges, I can develop tailored solutions that will enable you to confidently thrive in harmony with the rest of your life.

I am the man in the shadows, operating behind the scenes to empower you to perform at your highest level.My approach is stark and uncompromising—I don’t deal in shades of grey.When you engage with me, you’re getting my full commitment.Your success and personal development become my top priority, and I will do whatever it takes to ensure you thrive.

I have a solution to every challenge you currently face, thought to make it simpler, I have outlined the most common Five Realms that I guide Men in:

strength of character

Your Strength of Character is what ultimately defines you as a Man. It represents the values you hold, the way others see you, and the way you see yourself.

  • Deep Self-Belief & Authenticity

  • Clarity of Purpose & Direction

  • Mental Toughness

  • Larger Risk Tolerance

  • A Sense of Meaning, Purpose, & Fulfillment

  • Overcoming Limiting Beliefs & Self-Doubt

  • Meaningful Responsibility

  • Complete control over your Emotions

  • A Life Free from Bad Habits and Addictions

physical Prowess

Physical strength and capability command respect and influence to this day, and it is a foundational element of masculinity.

From a primitive perspective, the strongest and most physically capable Men were seen as the most admirable and worthy of respect. They occupied the top of the social hierarchy, enjoying access to the most desirable Women.In order to fulfil your masculine potential you must:

  • Develop a well-rounded and hyper-functional physique

  • Enhance your Combat Effectiveness

  • Promote Health & Vitality in the body

Spiritual Evolution

Spiritual Evolution means to nurture a profound connection with yourself, Nature, and the Divine.It's a journey of self-discovery, Faith, and Understanding the world around you.By pursuing spiritual development you can attain:

  • Deep Self-Awareness

  • Inner Peace

  • Wisdom

  • Gratitude

  • Connection with something greater than yourself

physical presence

Your physical presence is how you present yourself to the world.
By improving your overall image you will master the following:

  • Body language that authentically reflects your masculine essence.

  • Optimise your attractiveness by enhancing your natural strengths and neutralising any weaknesses.

  • Craft a wardrobe and style that embodies your authentic self.

  • Find your true resonant voice that compels others to listen.

In mastering these elements, you will develop an aura that naturally draws people to you and opens doors to new opportunities.

women

Masculine and feminine energies are two sides of the same coin; you cannot have one without the other. They represent two ends of a spectrum, working in harmony to create balance and wholeness. To fully embody your highest masculine energy, it is essential to understand and integrate the feminine energy as well.Without this understanding, you may find yourself lost or isolated, struggling to connect with the Women in your life.By learning how to engage with the feminine energy, you develop emotional intelligence and effective communication skills—qualities that will enhance all of your interactions and relationships with Women.Recognising the importance of these dynamics enables you to operate at your highest masculine potential, leading with confidence and authenticity.

Clarity Workshop

In this session, come prepared with up to three well-considered questions (prioritised in order of importance) that, if answered, would change your life.We will then work through these questions and dive deeply into the underlying problem, and produce actionable steps that you can take to move you forward.Most of my clients begin here, finding clarity and value that naturally lead into deeper mentorship with me afterwards.

90 Minutes: €220
Location: Tivat, Montenegro OR worldwide via Zoom

Pocket Mentor

For those who prefer a text-only approach, the Pocket Mentorship is your personal, on-demand adviser—right in your pocket.Think of me as a digital genie with unlimited wishes; any questions you have about personal growth, Strength of Character, Physical Prowess, Women, Relationships, Physical Presence, or self-improvement in general, just ask, and I’ll be there with answers and guidance.

Per Month: €220
Service: Exclusive 24/7 access to text me via Telegram

Personal Adviser

For those of you looking for a more intimate experience, As your Personal Adviser, I will work closely with you to cultivate your own unique masculinity and self-mastery.Your probelms become my problems, and your personal growth becomes my priority.I limit my clientele for this service to no more than three individuals at a time, to ensure that I can give my full dedication and commitment to each client I work with.

Per Month: €999

  • One 90 Minute Session per week (flexibile)

  • Exclusive 24/7 access via Telegram

Spalding brothers 3 day immersive experience

Health, Wellness, Masculinity, Natural Living

1-on-1 rapid personal growth experience with the Spalding Brothers in Tivat, Montenegro.We host countless Men from all walks of life to stay with us and experience a completely one-of-a-kind lifestyle that we have consciously curated for our health and personal growth.Men immerse themselves in our Way of life, a Way that has given us unshakeable confidence and immense self belief, knowing exactly who we are and where we are going in life.Our mission is to instil this same confidence in the next generation of Men, so they can lead meaningful and fulfilling lives that they love and continue to get stronger, healthier, more attractive, more confident, and more successful with each passing year.If you, your son, or any young Man you know is lacking direction, clarity, and purpose in his life, send him to us and he will leave a transformed Man.To find out more about the other half of the Spalding Brothers, you can visit Brandons website here.

what you can expect

  • Accommodation & Food

  • Intensive 1:1 Coaching on Training, Holistic Health, Self-Inflicted Adversity, Martial Arts, Dance, and Other Forms of Self-Improvement

who this is for

  • Young Men Seeking Direction, Clarity and Purpose: Men who are unsure of their next steps and are looking for inspiration and guidance on the path they should take in life.

  • Young Men Dedicated to Their Personal Growth: Men (aged 16-25) who are committed to their personal development and want to unlock their highest potential.

  • Young Men Seeking a Different Life Path: Men who are not fully content with their currently trajectory, the life they lead and the world around them, who deep down feel called and destined to be more than what they are becoming.

  • Parents Seeking Mentorship for Their Sons: Parents who want to provide their sons with strong role models, guidance in character development, and support in becoming responsible, healthy, confident young men.

your commitment

Engagements range from one day intensives to Retreats lasting up to 5 days, with corresponding fees from £500 to £3,500 respectively.

Accepted payment methods include Cash, Cryptocurrency, Direct Bank Transfer, and Gold.

Personal Masculinity Mentorship

I am dedicated to serving Men as a collective, and I believe that my services should be accessible to all Men who are prepared to listen.Therefore, to ensure that my services are accessible while reflecting the commitment required for meaningful growth, I have established the following flat rate structure that requires an equal financial commitment from all clients.

Fee Structure: 5% of your annual salary before tax for one month of mentorship.For example, if your annual salary is $120,000, your investment for my services will be $6,000.Minimum Salary: $50,000 per year / $2,500 for one month of mentorship.

If you are under 25 and cannot afford the minimum payment, but are still eager to learn, I encourage you to apply.In such cases, we can discuss a commitment of proportional value that reflects your dedication to the mentoring process.My goal is to make my mentorship available to those who are truly dedicated to self-improvement.

This is a collection of insights drawn from my experience advising Men across multiple realms of life:I could share my testimonials, but I'd rather let my work speak for itself. Testimonials are useful for those who prefer external reassurance to make decisions. However, I understand that high-level individuals prefer to assess the value directly and make their own judgment. I know, because that's what I do.

1. Contact

If you're interested in working with me, please submit the following form.

2. details

Depending on the service you're interested in, I will then send you a confidential application form that will give me the information I need to see how I can best serve you, along with my availability so we can schedule an initial consultation.

3. meet

The purpose of this consultation is to:1. Get to know each other and see whether we are aligned.2. Discuss where you are now, where you would like to be, and ultimately, how I can help you get there.

4. payment

All compensation is paid prior to the first session following our initial consultation.What I offer is not for the faint of heart. Don't make this decision lightly.